To Top it off, I have 4 birthday dinners I've got to either attend or do in the next 3 weeks. Two 1 on 1 dinners and two big group dinners... and why is it that my group dinners are for guy friends and my 1 on 1 dinners are for female friends (no, not interested in either one)? Oh yeah, because neither of these female friends are having their own big group dinner...