As many of you know... I am no longer "available". I haven't been for the past two months... so I promised my SO that I wouldn't post anything about her so the only thing I'll say about having a girlfriend (which is completely new for me!) is that I believe that the more unselfish you are, the more rewarded you will be by your relaionship (and this is true for any relationship... w/your friends, w/your family, w/your significant other... and w/God.)